Quote - I will not respond to all the crap above with the exception of 2 members.

Lucky me!!   I made his list of  "exceptions."  Why I'm not sure  

Karen, I feel for you :)  I'm not really sure what he feels he's gaining by doing this. But unfortunately some people (both men and women) sometimes revert to childish tactics during a breakup. I've never really understood that.  I used to work as a paralegal and dealt with many divorces, and I can attest to the fact that there are many bitter people out there that try to stick it to their ex-spouse.

Karen, I'm glad to see that you are trying to handle this in a mature way and do what is best for your son, instead of taking the low road.

Quote - amacord is right lets not attack her ex while giving  her support

LOL That's not necessary either. He's doing all the damage to himself, all by himself. I'm sorry for Karen, but actually I'm mostly amused at the git. If he think he'll gain support here.. well it just shows his sense of judgement...

And that has nothing to do with attacking anyone. That's just stating facts L

i was the other "exception" Acadia, still curious why, but don't want to stir things for Karen.

can't remember their full title (type of lawyer/barrister), but it is starting to sound like "family court" matter might be needed, to settle a contact order, with regards to your son. as far as i am aware, all legal advice is free for the first half hour.But you will want to find a lawyer that specializes in family court proceedings. Good luck Karen, hope it all smoothes out in the end.

Where I live you don't need a lawyer to get a restraining order, you can do it on your own by going to the Law Courts Building, filling out some forms, paying a filing fee and then appearing in court on the date given to you to present your case.

Karen, call the police. In the US, he would be arrested for stalking. Can't Rosity ban him???

Apart from the ridiculousness of this whole situation....if you do want to keep having access to your stepson, make sure it is all spelled out legally, and dont rely on good will.

My ex assured me I would always have access to my daughter, and even though I have all the legal court documents assuring me acces, I still havnt seen my daughter in 4 years :(

(because she is now 16 and the police cannot "force" her to go against her mothers wishes shrug)

Divorce is never fun....just make sure you keep yourself covered.

you know one thing that really frustrates me is the fact that when a couple divorce, they get selfish. fortunately enough for me, my ex-husband and i agreed that once divorce, it is not about us anymore but our two daughters. he and i work hard on each end to give both of them the love, the emotional security and  two good homes for my daughters to call theirs. it is not about you nor is it about this man...it is about the step son. you are going about it the right way karen, his demeanor sure doesn't say much about his character except for the fact that he is an arse. pity the kid is not your real son hon. i will be rooting for you and hope that he will see the light someday soon and figure out that through all these, the son is there watching and when he's old enough to finally find his voice to tell him just how stupid his dad is - he will.

Boy, I really wish we lived in a world were I could say..

"Give me his address, and this issue would be history!"

Karen, you have my support - and watch yer back!

JP

ok..who pulled the stake out of the heart of this thread?..;)

amicable divorce fits somewhere between 'military intelligence', and 'civil war'..

And as for the IP bit, heck, Machiavelli says 'never do your enemy a small injury'..

Politicians say, 'if your opponent is digging himself into a hole, best stand back, say nothing, and enjoy the show..

Man, as one divorced guy to another, give it up. Been there, didn't do me any good either.

maybe we should have an ex's forum lmao. now that would be fun hehe

billy

Yeah, I'm looking into a possible case for restraining order, but I can't get legal aid since I work hard and long hours, and he of course will get legal aid since he doesn't work. I'm saving my money towards funding my case for a contact order with my stepson instead as that's more of a concern.

:lol: Renderosity wins over STEP SON Now how sad is that?  Tell them karen1573 how you was on your pc for these dick heads 24/7 with no care or thought for your STEP SON? But I guess thats beyond you to tell the truth.

Instead of replying, it would be better to ignore this pathetic trolling.

Instead of replying, it would be better to ignore this pathetic trolling.

Aww now play nice.
YANKS NEED NOT REPLY.

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no no Karen!
let him continue.... then take the records along with you to the hearings... ;)

no no Karen!
let him continue.... then take the records along with you to the hearings... ;)

What hearing?  Bless the U.K we have rights unlike the Yanks  lol

I am talking about the UK. I'm from the UK ;)
but please carry on.. the records, (your postings, IP Adress, etc) will give Karen a lot of ammo....

so...please. carry on

Yeah, now I just have to save up enough cash to start legal proceedings.

We could start a collection.... a 'Nail the Asshole to the Wall' collection.

if the police were to be called in to investigate a case of stalking and harrasment, and upon visiting the house of the accused, were to find someone drunk and in charge of a minor, then social services would be called in also. If with the charge of harrasment and stalking, and drunk whilst in charge of a minor, social services may choose to take that person to court under the mental health act, and neglect of a minor, with a view to removing the minor from that persons care, there would be no court costs to Karen as it would be social services Vs neglectfull parent, karen could then come forward as a candidate for custodial guardianship of minor, as an alternative to foster care.

just my two pence!! 

Quote - We could start a collection.... a 'Nail the Asshole to the Wall' collection.

I'd donate :)  I'm sure others would who could as well.  That idea needs some serious consideration.

Might I suggest to Renderosity to enforce admin approval for new users? Would end this senseless crap from this person. As well it would provide Renderosity with proof of his actions as the emails he sends and different email addresses he uses to try to join can be used to show his ISP if further action needs to be taken.

I loved the comments about the Inland Revenue and Customs and Excise.  No we don't charge VAT as vendors through Bondware and you know what we can't charge VAT unless our total PER ANNUM takings are over a certain level, I want to say £100k but I'm not sure.  Also, as far as the tax office is concerned very few of us would be liable for taxable because every time we spend money on something connected with creating items we sell through the RMP it is TAX DEDUCTIBLE.  Can't speak for other vendors of course but I would be very surprised if anyone here earns enough, per annum to charge VAT and that isn't actually deep into the red when you take all your purchases off the sales figure.  Nice try but next time consult an accountant before you open your mouth.

Good Luck Karen!

Oh deary deary me.. is this fucknut STILL whining like a little schoolgirl with a skinned knee? Christ almighty.. this spanner reminds me of the very reason I skipped the island.

Ex's ... can't live with 'em, can't smack them in the face with a garden spade.

imho theres only one thing more disgusting than a man doing the macho-talk...

Hmm.. a man threatening and terrorising a woman maybe? A man holding a child as an emotional hostage perhaps...?

Nah. My money's on a woman who draws the line and says enough's enough.

Not such a humble opinion, eh?

humble or not, 1:0, my score! chuckles

:rolleyes:

Simple things....

sigh the behaviour of whatever-his-name-might-be in front of this community as well as twards karen is inacceptable and cannot be tolerated. amen. BUT: the reaction of some members of this community (that includes you, DarkStarBurning) is by no means better than his misbehaving (and is accordingly unworthy to be called civilized). lets take a look at the TOS... Members/Users will not use this community for; ... ... - Personal attacks. This includes but is not limited to, destructive, abusive, defamatory communications in any form, and retaliatory attacks from personal attacks. If you need assistance, please communicate with someone from our Renderosity Team. - Destructive commentary/communications made with the intent to disrupt or attack (Trolling). This applies to any communications within this community, whether in the forums, art galleries, graffiti wall, chat, or IM. ... dear members of the renderosity team! im awfully sorry to bother you with this, but i have to report that a number of members of this community (including DarkStarBurning) have obviously violated your TOS by posting comments which were insulting, discriminating and otherwise aggressive. since you are carefully monitoring the forums there is no need to add a namelist here (plus: im too lazy). i am sure you will act according to your TOS: Members/Users found practicing these behaviors receive; Deletion of the post/s. First event - warning by email and/or IM. Second event - Forum Suspension for 1 or 7 days or Temporary Community ban for 3 or 7 days. Third event - Membership revoked, and access to the community permanently blocked. This includes any duplicate accounts for the same person. Renderosity considers this information private and confidential. However, there may be certain situations that necessitate otherwise. arent all men equal? rgds Andi ps: i would like to repeat what i said on the first page of this thread... that karen has our sympathy is a fact and out of doubt. this does not mean that we are in any position to judge. we may frown upon rude behaviour, but its not for us to cut this guy down. my best wishes, karen, for you , for the kid, for your ex.

"...on your pc for these dick heads 24/7 with..."
Is calling us all "dick  heads" (sic)  slander or libel, or just downright rude...I can never remember? ~ROFL~

Best of luck Karen, and just remember everyone, it's really bad form to engage in a battle of wits with an unarmed man ;¬)

Why hasn't this thread been locked??????????

I may not post often here but have been a member for more years than my memory caters for,but from all the thousands of threads i have read i realise that Karen is not anything like the person this pat man is talking about. he is obviously a child and needs to grow up.

I hope all goes well sorting this out Karen,and it wont effect my views on you or rosity.

and that's one of the things ya gotta deal with..who gets custody of the friends..;)  sounds like this is her corner, son (I'm a really old f*rt..I can get away with saying that. Anyone born under 48 stars..;). Lurk, be nice, but the deck is stacked in this 'ol neck of the woods.

ROFL

Yeah, TOS me heheheh

Now if you'll excuse me, I have a life to attend to :)

still here? anyway...2:0, s.b.

Hi folks,

I thank everyone for their support.

In the last few days, I have been able to talk to Pat civilly again, which is excellent news as he has "reopened" access to my stepson.

In order not to spoil this entente cordiale and by way of hoping to draw a line under things, I'm going to lock the thread.

Again I do thank all for their support, it has really helped me during this difficult time to know that my integrity is respected.

Karen :-)